Have you been the victim of narcissistic manipulation tactics? You may not even be aware that someone close to you uses emotional manipulation and psychological control on you. Instead of providing happiness and encouraging success, these people often become obstacles to achievement. Since changing a manipulator's behavior is pretty much impossible, it's important to learn about the narcissist's favorite manipulation and punishment tactics so that you can protect yourself from their narcissistic abuse. The narcissist uses gaslighting or crazy making communication to manipulate how you think. However, when you learn to recognize the psychology of how a narcissist manipulates you, you can outsmart them and protect yourself from further harm.
These are the signs you're dating a narcissist, according to narcissism expert Dr. Ramani.
"It's like looking into a mirror, and nothing's looking back at you."
Leading psychologist and author Dr. Ramani Durvasula walks us through how to spot the signs you're dating a narcissist. She draws advice from her bestselling book, "Should I Stay Or Should I Go? Surviving A Narcissistic Relationship".
What defines a narcissist, and what behaviors are typical of a narcissist?
How many of those characteristics does someone have to have in order to be defined as a narcissist?
What is "gaslighting"?
What does it look like when two narcissists date each other?
Are narcissists self-aware?
Can you teach a narcissist empathy?
Nature vs. nurture: Is someone born a narcissist or do they become a narcissist?
What role does parenting play in creating a narcissist?
How can parents prevent narcissism?
How is the trait of narcissism different than narcissistic personality disorder?
Can a narcissistic person ever be truly "cured"?
What should someone expect if they want to break up with a narcissist?
How should someone manage their expectations if they want to continue dating a narcissist?
Dr. Ramani ends the interview with some encouraging advice that anyone can implement today.