The Signs You're Dating A Narcissist & Their Manipulation Tactics

Have you been the victim of narcissistic manipulation tactics? You may not even be aware that someone close to you uses emotional manipulation and psychological control on you. Instead of providing happiness and encouraging success, these people often become obstacles to achievement. Since changing a manipulator's behavior is pretty much impossible, it's important to learn about the narcissist's favorite manipulation and punishment tactics so that you can protect yourself from their narcissistic abuse. The narcissist uses gaslighting or crazy making communication to manipulate how you think. However, when you learn to recognize the psychology of how a narcissist manipulates you, you can outsmart them and protect yourself from further harm.



These are the signs you're dating a narcissist, according to narcissism expert Dr. Ramani.

"It's like looking into a mirror, and nothing's looking back at you."

Leading psychologist and author Dr. Ramani Durvasula walks us through how to spot the signs you're dating a narcissist.  She draws advice from her bestselling book, "Should I Stay Or Should I Go? Surviving A Narcissistic Relationship".



What defines a narcissist, and what behaviors are typical of a narcissist?
How many of those characteristics does someone have to have in order to be defined as a narcissist?
What is "gaslighting"?
What does it look like when two narcissists date each other?
Are narcissists self-aware?
Can you teach a narcissist empathy?
Nature vs. nurture: Is someone born a narcissist or do they become a narcissist?
What role does parenting play in creating a narcissist?
How can parents prevent narcissism?
How is the trait of narcissism different than narcissistic personality disorder?
Can a narcissistic person ever be truly "cured"?
What should someone expect if they want to break up with a narcissist?
How should someone manage their expectations if they want to continue dating a narcissist?

Dr. Ramani ends the interview with some encouraging advice that anyone can implement today.


Money Does Buy Happiness After All

What is the connection between wealth and happiness? Previous research has found that while money can purchase happiness, it reaches a nadir at around US$75,000 per year.

New research, on the other hand, suggests differently.

A recent study demonstrated that happiness improves linearly with reported income (logarithmic) and continues to rise beyond the US$80,000/year barrier, based on over a million real-time reports from a large U.S. sample group.

We'll go through the research methods in more detail below, as well as a few plausible reasons why higher wages may increase people's happiness levels.


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How is Happiness Measured?


Previous studies on happiness and income have relied on retroactive data, which can lead to human memory errors. This current study, on the other hand, relies on real-time, logged data from a mood tracking app to provide a more realistic representation of respondents' overall happiness.

Random prompts were also used to collect data over time, with dozens of entries documented for each respondent. This provides a more comprehensive picture of a person's overall health.

In this study, two types of happiness were assessed:
  • Well-being that has been felt
  • The mood and feelings of a person throughout their day.
Evaluative happiness: On reflection, a person's assessment of their life.

Higher salaries enhanced both types of well-being, but evaluative well-being indicated a more pronounced divide between the lower and higher income groups.

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